Tuesday, July 11, 2006

Nope.

I am getting better at not crying until after I get to the aiport. I guess you could call that an accomplishment, but I wouldn't call it "getting easier." I don't know when we'll get to see each other again because I don't know whether he'll be starting a new job or moving to NH. I've also just hired someone to work with me and can't leave him alone in a new job while I take off to SoCal. We can't make any more plans until we get a few more answers. Please please please send us some answers.

It just hit me late last night and this morning that it's difficult to wedding dress shop when you don't even know when you'll get to see each other again, let alone when you're getting married. It doesn't deserve a half-hearted attempt, so I backed out of the trip to Portland this weekend. Again my apologies if I messed up the others' plans for this weekend. I think I just need some time alone to collect my thoughts.

My Dad dropped by yesterday and we discussed a few things about my house/yard. There are some things I need his help with, such as filling in the front yard wash-out with topsoil and sticking some sod down on it. The deck was too big of a project for John to attempt last week so it still needs to be sealed -- Dad says that can be done fairly quickly with the new paint sprayer he bought. Dad left me with a weed whacker, which John used to get some of the mess cleaned up in the yard yesterday. My 3 cord of winter wood will be arriving in the next few weeks, which means I have to make sure the basement is in order so it can be loaded in.

Last but not least, we discussed the driveway and its need to be paved. Paving is pretty much the only solution to the wash-out problems I've been having, in both the front and back yards. If you've been by my house lately, you'll notice the giant crater in the driveway around back from the rain. If I don't get it fixed, it will just keep washing the crushed rock away and carving streams in my driveway, in addition to lawn wash-out in front. When I walked back in my office this afternoon, Dad called and said it was being paved as we spoke. Apparently the guy he hired to do paving at his office had some free time this afternoon, so they're paving it right now. I won't be able to drive on it for at least 24h, but it will be soooo nice to have that done, especially this winter -- no more gravel all over the lawn come spring. Not sure how much this is going to cost me yet, but it's one of those things that has to be done before things get worse.

Having John here to share some homeowner burdens has been a tremendous help. A lot of people laughed at the fact that I had a list ready for him when he got here, but what they don't understand is that before he came we had discussed various things he could help me with while here. It wasn't a "surprise, you have work to do!" kind of list. He did get to a lot of things on the list and I am very grateful. I have one small thing left to do on the porch -- the post caps I bought 2 years ago still need to be painted and attached. I'll attack that this week, before I lose my ambition. I'm looking forward to the day when he'll be here full-time, and having someone else working for me at work again will definitely take some of the pressure off.

4 comments:

Cyn said...

Hang in there, Liz. Soon enough this will all be a distant memory.

As for the list, yeah it's kinda funny (in a rather comical way), but well... it'll soon be his home as well, right? So it's not like you're asking him to work on a house he has not attachment to and won't have any benefit of the work. This will soon be his home as well and why shouln't he be willing to help out and get it all perdy. (:

John, you hurry up and get to SJ now, ya hear! hehe! Keeping my fingers crossed for you two that this process moves along quickly.

Scott Thomas said...

Doin' work for the one you love is all a part of the grand package. Im sure the answers will come soon, until then cheer up and rememebr that in todays day and age, distance doesnt prevent you from talking every day!

Lisa said...

It's always hard being away from the person you love...

John said...

It is VERY hard to be away from the one you love. I've been gone about 24 hours, and I'm already feeling it!!!!

Must. Move. To. Saint. John!

As to the list-- I like having lists of things to do. Keeps me busy and out of trouble. As M's Significant Other, it is one of my responsibilities (which I happily perform) to help her with these tasks. Plus, it is a nice house, and I'm happy to help any way I can.

Plus, if I have a list, I don't have to worry about forgetting things. Which I am prone to do. It is hell getting old! *sigh